People flinch when I say how old my kids are, like I’ve got monsters at home. But my kids talk to me. That isn’t luck — it’s intention, born from studying my parents’ mistakes and my own. I made plenty of them when they were little. Their reactions were the mirror that showed me who I didn’t want to be — and where I could choose repair. ✨

I took my kids to Dear Evan Hansen 🎭 and it hit close. Last year, my uncle — in a wheelchair for 20+ years — ended his life. I’m angry I didn’t know, angry his words were dismissed. Suicidal thoughts aren’t selfish. We all carry weights unseen. Check in, listen with your heart. 💙 If you or someone you know is struggling, call your local emergency number or reach out to Befrienders or IASP.