Lunar New Year has always brought mixed emotions for me. I look back fondly at big family get-togethers, fun games like 魚蝦蟹 (fish-shrimp-crab), and endless snacks with my cousins. However, I can't ignore the hurtful comments from relatives about my appearance that have stuck with me over the years. This year felt bittersweet as I chose not to engage in the usual celebrations with my children and extended family. It made me reflect on whether it's worth exposing us to hurtful

In reflecting on my journey, I realize that the pursuit of freedom has been a significant theme in my life. Expanding from childhood escapades to adult choices, this quest has shaped my understanding of self-discovery and belonging.