Lunar New Year Reflections: Balancing Joy and Pain

Lunar New Year has always brought mixed emotions for me. I look back fondly at big family get-togethers, fun games like 魚蝦蟹 (fish-shrimp-crab), and endless snacks with my cousins. However, I can't ignore the hurtful comments from relatives about my appearance that have stuck with me over the years.

This year felt bittersweet as I chose not to engage in the usual celebrations with my children and extended family. It made me reflect on whether it's worth exposing us to hurtful scrutiny and remarks. Ultimately, I decided to enforce boundaries, believing it’s the best decision for me and my family. ✨

I might never know if I made the right choice, and I may feel differently when Lunar New Year comes around next year. For now, I am at peace with my decision.

Wishing you a great, peaceful & fiery year to come! 🧧